Mistaken Closeness

Closeness is the tendency that we fall inlove to somebody. This is based on the reality that even friends turn to lovers unexpectedly.

Anyone agree to this?
Well, I definitely agree to this quote because many times I fell for someone for this same reason. You more likely mistaken closeness for love. Anyone who experienced such feeling is a type of person who is hungry for love; paternal, maternal, friendship and any other kinds of love. Any care and closeness receive from others suddenly felt as love. Sometimes it would cause negative attitudes such as being possessive, jealous, and nagging. The fear of losing love again and be alone entails him/her to feel such. The constant search of the feeling of being love is the power that sometimes pushes us to the wrong side. Though others can fight such feeling there are others that can't control it. And there are even others not aware they are feeling such longing.

More likely he/she is somebody who...

Is raised by a single parent... that can't spend time for their child because of his/her responsibility as being the sole provider.

Grow up in a broken family... Parents separation plays a vital rule in showing love. Although, it is wise to separate rather see them bought fight every now and then, but we cannot deny the fact that things would never be the same.

Orphan and/or left in a child care center... nothing compares to the love of your true parents. Or perhaps a curiousity of how it feels to be love by your parents.

Career mom/dad or business-minded parents... yes its for the future but what about the present? Money can't buy happiness. Money can't buy love. And money surely can't buy time.

What I'm stating is the other side, of course if love is felt from people who matters to us or persons who had help us grow a better person it'll influence us to share the love that we have. On the other hand, growing lack of love would make a person hungry for love and will sort it out to anyone he/she meet.